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Anonymous asked: What is it that people want attention so badly even if they already receive it?
Its because their ego has created a void in their life, that no matter how much attention they receive it won’t be enough to overcome the insecurities that live inside of their head. We live in a world that encourages individuality, but stresses conformity. This is our society’s biggest contradiction. The price that you pay for not conforming is being ostracized socially. In a digital age social acceptance means everything. All you have to do is go on your facebook, or your instagram (two things I got rid of) to see how conformity is affecting us as generation. Check instagram to see how ”flexing” has become an art of its own. The more “followers” a person has, the more they are worshiped. Its the Halo effect. (Halo effect= We believe that people who have more money than us or are physically more attractive, are somehow better people morally than us). Thousands of photos are uploaded daily for the sole purpose of creating an image. Men post pictures of their money to attract women, women post pictures of themselves nude to attract men. Status is traded for sex constantly. Its almost a form of social prostitution.
On facebook you have women who take pictures of themselves and upload them to their timeline six times a day. Why? Because they feel as if they are lacking something in their lives, and they feel that if they gain social acceptance that void will be filled. Just like some men feel as if they buy thousands of dollars worth of clothes, they will able to compensate for their flaws. A lot of these women we “feel” have everything externally, have the biggest insecurities internally. Since they have relied on their beauty for so long, they haven’t developed a sense of identity of their own. So they start to identity with the attention they receive from men, If they aren’t constantly getting this validation then they feel something is wrong…Something is missing. By getting a man to “crave” them sexually, is proof to them that they are worth something. They are trying to prove something to themselves, through the attention of other people. They are destined to succumb to depression, because it doesn’t matter how many “want” them…If a woman doesn’t love herself, then she will be hurt and abused…Thus becoming a victim. Often you will see status from these same women who constantly get their heart broken…Their victims of their own vanity.
May God bless you.
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